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meghan's avatar

so excited for this! as someone who is ambivalent to labels, i am so interested in exploring people’s ideas of how to gather, connect, conflict and repair *in community* without all this constructed noise that doesn’t allow us to hear one another. 🫀

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Yes! This resonates so much. I’m deeply interested in how we return to relational clarity—beyond labels, but not beyond accountability. Real connection, real repair, real listening. That’s the work. So glad you’re here for it. 🌀✨

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Rewilding Neurodiversity's avatar

Oooh I like your explanation of positionality. That made something click in my brain. Thanks.

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Liz's avatar

I love the shared agreements section. That feels really supportive of true safety. Your posts have been popping up on threads for me and I love how grounded and nuanced they are. I’m so excited to participate here after getting a bit overwhelmed by volatile online discourse that isn’t community building or productive. ❤️Liz

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Thank you so much, Liz. That means a lot. The shared agreements are truly the backbone of this space—I want us to be held, not just heard.

I really feel you on the overwhelm. So much of what’s out there right now feels more reactive than relational. I’m grateful you found your way here, and I’m so glad to be in community with you. 💛✨

Welcome. You belong here.

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Susan Rapley's avatar

This sounds like a stunning offering. So glad to have come across you already

Our positionality is parallel- I am in New Zealand, and some other details vary. We have similar backgrounds and current approaches informed by those. I'm so excited to see and share what you will create with these ❤️✨️

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Thank you I am so happy to have you along for the ride!

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Julie's avatar

I want to participate but I am not in a position to pay right now and that feels horrible. And I am so shut down that I am afraid I won’t be able to access the emotions I need to feel in order to heal.

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Honor where you are right now—your well-being comes first. This series will be here whenever you’re ready. And please don’t stress about payment; it’s always optional. ❤️

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Julie's avatar

Thank you.

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Luci v's avatar

Thank you so much for the invitation

I got the app so I can follow along and I'll try to keep up

Really excited to be witness and participant to an incredibly important and interesting developing conversation 🤍

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Thank you for your support and excited to have you on the journey!

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Maria Gehrke's avatar

Sher, this is absolutely amazing work! I want to share this but noticed the list of sessions does not have updated links (I think you are up to session 15 now, right?)

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Oh thank you I will update those today.

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Done!

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Jai's avatar

Looking forward to this series. Resonate with your lived experience and love reading your work (it lights up my brain😊) 💜

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Thank you! 💜

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Adam's avatar

This offering is intriguing and ambitious. I'll always have a space in my heart for people who just f*cking go for it. Just going for it is the holy grail to me. It's the only way things get done. Fear is the mightiest obstacle. You wouldn't know from my Threads posts but I'm actually a man of few words. I tend to reflect more than speak. I can't predict to what degree I'll participate because I'm not great in large group discussion. I will be the guy sitting in the corner with the opaque facial expression taking it all in. The wheels will be turning as they always do and there is a good chance I'll chime in because usually, eventually, I do. Congratulations on the birth of your forum. May it be educational, fulfilling, and healthy for all.

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Sher Griffin's avatar

You’re welcome to participate as much or as little as feels right for you. Just to clarify—this is self-paced. I’ll be posting 2–3 times a week, and it’s not a live format.

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Adam's avatar

Understood. It'll be really interesting to see how it unfolds. 🙂

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Deborah Bosner's avatar

I absolutely love your agreements. I rewrote them several times to train my brain in them as they are really soothing to my mind. Love having rules around such a challenging process. Considering proposing them a family or marriage agreements in my own life.

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Mx. PunkRogers's avatar

ok, i'll board your bus!

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Sher Griffin's avatar

Yesss! Welcome aboard the wildly neurodivergent, system-disrupting, heart-led bus 🚌💫

We’re headed somewhere honest, messy, and liberatory—and I’m so glad you’re here for the ride. 🖤🌀

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